Powerful and mysterious Widow's stone: a few facts, who should not be worn, who should buy, the main representatives, photos of the stone
Each stone, born by nature, has its own properties, features and purpose. The power of stones and their impact on the body and human life has been known since ancient times. Some minerals represent love, others are wealth, others are power and might. But there are also stones of loneliness, which are popularly called "widow's". There are legends and beliefs about the mystery, influence and significance of these stones, they are used in rituals and love spells, worn during mourning days and they believe in their powerful influence on the fate of people.
Facts and prejudices
Beliefs and prejudices are so deeply seated in the minds of people that they become a reality. It is believed that a woman who has worn jewelry made of "widow" stone for a long time loses her husband early or does not marry at all, remaining single for life. Whether this is a reality, a myth or self-hypnosis, no scientific evidence has been found so far. Stones of singles have a purple, dark, similar to the sea abyss, burgundy color. Jewelry and accessories with stones of nondescript colors are worn by people who have lost loved ones, people dear to their hearts.

"Widow" stones are considered to be:
- alexandrite
- amethyst
- pearl
- topaz
- pomegranate.

Alexandrite
This gem has a reputation for being "widowed" due to historical coincidences.Emperor Alexander was presented with a gem for his birthday and in honor of the ruler they gave the name to the stone. The gem protected the powerful king for many years and was always with him. One day, not wearing his favorite amulet, the emperor became a victim of an assassination attempt. And how many widows appeared during the Great Patriotic War!

The stone has the unique ability to change color depending on the lighting and respond to a person's mood. The neutral biofield of the mineral normalizes the nervous system of its owner and "checks" for strength: if the owner resists problems, troubles and hardships, shows willpower, then he will help. If not, then, alas. Usually strong and persistent personalities own the stone, preferring to overcome difficulties alone. Therefore, the girls do not wear this stone, assuming that the stone will push away the suitors.

Amethyst
The mineral is a kind of attribute of temple servants who have taken a vow of celibacy. It helps to focus on yourself, your thoughts and knowledge. The stone is considered the main assistant in the rite of love spell for the separation of people who love each other. With the help of a bead, enchanted by sorcerers, lovers were separated, after which the abandoned woman was forced to bear the crown of celibacy for life. It was used in love spells and lapels, forcibly falling in love with another person. In the old days in Rus', on the wedding day, the bride and groom exchanged amethysts, giving an oath of fidelity to each other. According to ancient legends, this mineral is able to keep the memory of love, and a gifted ring with it retains an eternal connection. Even after the death of one of the spouses, the other remained faithful to his half until the end of his life.At present, on the contrary, this stone is not given to newlyweds, they believe that it can cause separation. Widows, not wanting a new relationship, wear amethyst rings.

Pearl
This amazing mineral has long been considered the personification of the tears of the wives of sailors, who were swallowed into their abyss by the sea. This superstition lives on among the people to this day. But there is also a contradictory belief. For most peoples, pearls are considered a symbol of innocence and purity. Grooms in Eastern countries entwine their brides with white pearl beads to keep the union strong. Medieval knights gave their beloved pearls, thus proving their serious intentions. In Rus', pearls were an obligatory attribute at a wedding. Mother and father gave the girls two pearls a year, so that a pearl string would be ready for the wedding. Nowadays, this mineral is recommended to be worn by married women, and in order not to be widowed, combine two pieces of jewelry in a pair: a ring and a brooch, a necklace and a bracelet, earrings and a pendant. Jewelers say that pearls should be worn in a metal frame, and not just strung on a thread. Girls who want to find a loved one should not wear this stone, it will not allow them to see the feelings of a person, and fate may pass by.

Topaz
The stone has a cold color of sea depth. The bewitching darkness of the color and the magic of the stone does not allow a woman who has worn it for a long time to start a family and have children. Blue and blue topaz turns a person into a hermit even in a crowded society, makes him aloof and self-centered. The owner of the stone falls in love with loneliness and enjoys his position. The opportunity to create a happy family is missed. Previously, jewelry with a dark-colored stone was worn on mourning days when a loved one was lost.Now topaz is worn by strong, domineering natures, unable to obey anyone.

Pomegranate
The rich color of the stone resembles blood. There is a legend that if there are pomegranate decorations in the house, then by a strange coincidence, someone in the family loses a large amount of blood in accidents, death and separation occur. And many people consider this stone "widow's", because it is consonant with the name of the fruit, personifying the other world. But contrary to popular belief, most people personify the pomegranate with love and passion, capable of reviving even extinct feelings. Pomegranate has powerful energy and transfers it to its owner. It is unlikely that a strong and self-sufficient woman who has jewelry with a pomegranate will be considered by a man as a candidate for the role of wife.

To indicate the status of a single woman or a widow, it is recommended to wear jewelry in a silver (but not gold) frame.

You can not use "widow" stones:
- lovers who want to start their own family
- spouses with relationship problems (the stone will increase difficulties)
- impressionable people who are strongly affected by all sorts of prejudices
- women and men with sick relatives.
If you want to purchase a "widow" stone, you need to take into account the zodiac constellation.

Alexandrite is not suitable for representatives of the signs Virgo, Leo, Capricorn. Amethyst is contraindicated for Libra, Topaz is not recommended for Taurus, Sagittarius, Leo. Pomegranate is not suitable for people born under the signs of Pisces, Capricorn, Sagittarius.

If you want to wear the listed gems, then they can and should be worn contrary to all beliefs. In any case, prejudices are powerless before the will of a person and have not been scientifically proven.Pomegranate, for example, improves blood composition, topaz helps awaken energy and strength, pearls help improve the functioning of the thyroid gland and respiratory organs.

If jewelry with a stone has a positive effect on the body, gives positive emotions, reminds of pleasant events and meetings, it should be worn without paying attention to the names and characteristics that are undeservedly attributed to them. Joys and hardships happen in the life of every person, and it is impossible to change them with the help of stones.












































